My Mom's Battle with Illness and Passing

My Mom's Battle with Illness and Passing

It has been a difficult journey witnessing my mom's battle with illness and eventually her passing on February 4, 2025. Her strength and resilience throughout the ordeal have left a lasting impact on me and shaped my perspective on life.

My mom was falsely diagnosed with dementia  by her granddaughter Rebecca some time ago, who is not a doctor.  She wanted revenge on her for undoing the POWER OF ATTORNEY she put on my mom the first time (I advised her to undo), so Rebecca plotted to obtain some diagnoses by some quack doctors until she had 3.   When she wanted to rent the house to someone else and kick my mom out, she used this as an excuse to take away my mom's rights and freedoms, even though the dementia was minor and not 'full blown'.  My mom was a pillar of strength in our family a time ago, always putting others before herself, before she started living near my sister and then near Rebecca in the house Rebecca said they bought for her to live in the rest of her life (a scam)!  My mom assured us that she did not have severe dementia (I agreed) and would fight the labeled illness with all her might, others falsely put on her.

Family members like my sister Linda and niece Rebecca, nevertheleww tried to project on her and the medical profession that my mom had nearly full-blown dementia, which ended up taking away her independence, freedom and right to make her own decisions... so that in the end the two could obtain POWER OF ATTORNEY over my mom and control everything about her, including getting her out of Rebecca's house my mom helped her buy when a family member was needed to live in it, just so Rebecca could get my mom out of it to sell it for a profit, which is why she was put in the hospital and then a life of nursing home facilities after that where her life never became the same again and gradually became one of isolation and being alone with no friends or family ever again).  Combined togdether, that's what probably killed her!  How did I know she only had mild dementia?  I spoke to her on the telephone every day when nobody else did. 

In truth, Rebecca convinced my mom to let her have POWER OF ATTORNEY over her once before this, by creating a series of imagined hypotheticals my mom believed, then regretted it afterwards.  I convinced my mom to undo it, which she did with her attorney.  This made Rebecca furious, for Rebecca was unstable and wanted control of my mom, her possessions and to use her then spit her out!  Once Rebecca was found guilty of trying to murder her own child, Alexandra or Alex... but was neverr charged.  Instead she was put into a mental facility for a while and lost custody of her daughter which is why she began living with Linda, her grandmother.  I asked my mom to go get vaccinated against Covid-19 but instead of taking my mom to get vaccinated, Rebecca took her to quack doctors where she was not even told she was being interviewed to see if she had dementia, until Rebecca finally got 3 to get them to certify my mom with a dimentia diagnosis using manipulation and her good looks and twisted lies.  Rebecca then took the document to the hospital she put my mom into after a fall, after which, my mom was labeled unfit to leave the hospital or grounds because of that!  She lost her freedom as a normal human being and she never saw her possessions or dog Daphne, ever again!

Despite the physical and emotional toll being in hospitals and nursing homes took on her, she remained optimistic and determined to beat the illness. I was in awe of her unwavering spirit and resilience throughout the difficult process.

As her illness progressed, my mom's health began to deteriorate. Seeing her in pain was heart-wrenching, but she never once complained or lost hope. She continued to face each day with a positive attitude, spreading love and warmth to everyone around her.

During her final days, my mom's strength and grace shone brightest. She spent her time surrounded by family and friends, sharing stories and memories that would be cherished forever. She never once showed fear or regret, embracing her fate with a sense of peace and acceptance.

On the day of her passing, I wish I could have held her hand and whispered words of love and gratitude for everything she has done for our family.  Returning to the moment she died as if I was there in my imagination, I watch as she asks for a glass of water and while the nurse goes to get it, watch my mom die in peace hopefully with no pain as she takes her last breath, her eyes filled with serenity of such a strong and loving mother.

My mom's passing has taught me valuable lessons about life and the importance of resilience and love. I have learned to cherish every moment with loved ones and to never take anything for granted. Her legacy lives on in the love and kindness that she shared with others, inspiring me to live my life with the same grace and courage that she displayed.

While the pain of losing my mom will always be there, I take solace in the knowledge that she is at peace and no longer suffering. Her memory continues to guide me through life's challenges, reminding me of the strength and love that she embodied until the very end.

My mom's battle with illness and passing has been a profound and life-changing experience for me. I will always carry her memory in my heart and strive to live a life that honors her legacy of strength, resilience, and love.